If you’re ready to surprise your partner with something extra special, here are some ideas to take your dates to the next level. Sure, cocktails and dressing can be fun, but these epic adventures will leave you both with stories that will warm your hearts for years to come.
Before our little ones came along, Nick and I spent countless days chasing adventures—scaling mountains, conquering multi-pitch climbs, and tackling adrenaline-pumping obstacle races. It was just our way of having fun. When we first had kids we faced an identity crisis as individuals and as a couple. Who were we if we weren’t doing crazy adventures? It was the catalyst for this website. Now, I treasure those crazy adventure memories and although our adventures might be a bit slower these days, but they’re no less meaningful. He’s some simple ideas to get a-little-more-outdoor together no matter your level of adventure.
1. Go Paddling Together
Canoes, kayaks or paddleboards are a great way to get into a different environment. It was a great activity when we ran our centre for both super active and more laid-back guests. Since leaving our centre it has been awesome for dates and family days to do something a little different and interact.
No gear? No worries! Google “canoe rental near me”. It’s a quick skill to learn and fun to master. If you enjoy it bit’s of gear make a great gift. A new, romantic affordable hobby you can enjoy for years to come!
2. Pack a Fancy Picnic
Forget the standard sandwiches and juice boxes—let’s make it magical! Pack a gourmet picnic with mouthwatering treats, your favourite wine, and a soft, cosy blanket that invites you to relax and unwind. On cooler days, layer up with extra blankets to create an intimate and romantic escape. I’m a huge fan of picnics—so much so that I designed our own exclusive picnic blanket (sadly, they’re all sold out right now), but there are so many gorgeous options HERE, perfect for creating memories year-round. Imagine returning to this perfect little oasis every season.
Nick’s notes: get simple things to eat that don’t make too much mess or leave you with sticky rubbish you have to pack away. I like something hot that you can close up and not leave your bag messy. Cook up something satisfying like curry or stew and get some of these. No rubbish
3. Build a Fire Together
Sometimes, the best moments are the simplest. Light a fire, get cosy, and just enjoy the flickering flames and each other’s company. There’s something about the warmth, the crackle of burning wood, and the open night sky that makes everything feel a little more special.
Bring your favourite drink, and some good snacks, and take your time—no rush, no distractions, just you two. And if you fancy trying something different, have a go at whittling. It’s surprisingly relaxing, and by the end of the night, you’ll have carved a little memento from your evening—something to remind you of the time spent together under the stars.
Nick’s Note: Most land is owned in the UK so you may need to ask permission. Typically, like camping, use common sense and don’t be a nuisance or a hazard. Having fires near bodies of water where you won’t damage the ground and the environment is usually a good starting point.
4. Try Wild Swimming
For the adventurous at heart, wild swimming is an unforgettable experience. Find a stunning spot, take a deep breath, and dive in together—the icy water will leave you breathless, exhilarated, and completely in the moment. There’s something about that shared rush, the laughter, and the challenge that makes it even more special.
Afterwards, wrap up in a warm hug, sip from a flask of hot tea or soup, and let the chill fade as you take in the beauty around you. And if a hug isn’t quite enough? A cosy dry robe makes the perfect thoughtful touch—because keeping each other warm is all part of the adventure.
5. Hike and Watch the Sunset
Pick a scenic trail, lace up your boots, and set off on an adventure together. Time it just right so you reach the perfect spot as the sun dips below the horizon, turning the landscape into something out of a storybook. And if you find yourselves walking back under a sky full of stars? Even better. The quiet, the closeness, the shared sense of adventure—it all makes for an unforgettable experience.
Whenever we do this, we bring a hot drink and stop at what we call our Cup of Tea Bench (very British, we know!). There’s something so simple yet special about sipping something warm, breathing in the fresh air, and just enjoying the moment together. Try it, and you might just create your own little tradition.
6. Discover Something New Together
Looking to ignite that spark and create unforgettable memories? Try something new together! Whether it’s mastering a new skill, taking on an adventurous challenge, or exploring a hidden gem, the excitement of discovering something fresh will bring you closer and leave you with stories to laugh about for years. It’s a perfect way to create moments of connection, joy, and shared experiences.
And it’s not just about the activity—it’s about the journey. Whether you’re sharing ideas on all the adventurous things you’d love to try or learning something new about each other along the way, it’s a fantastic way to deepen your bond. Imagine picking a new skill like archery or hiking up a mountain trail and discovering a hidden waterfall together. Or maybe learning to rock climb, challenging each other to push your limits, and sharing that sense of accomplishment. Try a tandem bike ride through scenic trails or a sunset paddleboarding session on a peaceful lake—each moment filled with fun, laughter, and endless conversation. It’s about growing together and enjoying shared experiences as a couple.
Nick’s Note: Great day, terrible photo of me, you look lovely.
7. Work on a Project
How about taking on a project together that’s both fun and rewarding? Whether it’s planting a garden or building something outdoors, it’s such a great way to see your partner’s creative side in action. There’s something special about working side by side, bouncing ideas off each other, and then watching it all come together. Plus, when you’re done, you’ll have something beautiful to look at that you both created—a constant reminder of the time and effort you put in together. It’s a simple way to connect, laugh, and make memories.
Nick’s Note: Ha this photo is when we first started working on Alittlemoreoutdoor.com (no grey in my beard) the ad that Keri is working on is here https://alittlemoreoutdoor.com/create-freedom/ and that square in the background is a firepit we used to have BBQ’s on.
8. Have a Takeaway in the Rain
What started as an accidental date turned into one of our most memorable moments. We grabbed some takeaway, found a quiet, scenic spot—even if it was raining—and settled in under an oversized umbrella or a sheltered spot. With the rain keeping everyone else away, we had the place to ourselves, making it feel even more special. It’s simple, relaxed, and surprisingly romantic. The rain adds a nice touch of calm, and as you share your meal, it’s the kind of low-key date that feels just right. Plus, that oversized umbrella? A game changer for staying dry and still enjoying the moment.
9. Cocktails Outside
If you’re in the mood for cocktails, why not take them outdoors? Find a stunning location—maybe a quiet beach at sunset or a scenic hilltop with a view—and let the surroundings elevate the whole experience. The setting can make all the difference, turning a simple drink into a moment you’ll both remember. Whether you’re sipping cocktails by the water, surrounded by nature, or on a rooftop overlooking the city, the atmosphere will add that perfect touch of magic. It’s not just about the drinks, it’s about creating an unforgettable moment together.
10. Go for a Run Together
We like to relive our early days with a run together—it’s a fun, energetic way to reconnect. Pick a scenic route, one that’s as much about the views as the run itself, and set a pace that feels easy and relaxed for both of you. When you find that perfect spot—maybe overlooking a lake or nestled in a quiet park—surprise your partner with a treat to enjoy as you catch your breath. It’s all about having fun, not pushing for fitness goals, so take breaks to chat, laugh, and just soak in the moment.
Want to make it even more exciting? Surprise your loved one with some new running gear—comfortable, stylish, and ready for your next adventure together.
These adventurous date ideas are perfect for couples looking to reconnect, try something new, and make memories that last a lifetime. Which one will you try first? Let us know in the comments or share your adventurous date ideas!
We love making unforgettable memories and deepening our connection through simple yet meaningful activities. But let’s be honest—nothing compares to the thrill of discovering a new destination together! The excitement of a last-minute getaway, the adventure of exploring unknown streets hand in hand, and the magic of sharing new experiences—it’s the ultimate romantic escape.
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